People who are on the spectrum struggle. What they struggle with differs from person to person, but knowing why you’re “wired that way” helps immensely to a) get whatever *appropriate* help you need, b) avoid getting misdiagnosed (and the incorrect treatment that may actually make things worse) and c) help you understand why you are the way you are, which helps your self-esteem (since not knowing why you can’t “just be normal” can be devastating). There’s a reason why women on the spectrum have such high rates of suicide.