So, then, basically, disregard the author’s thesis entirely. OK. Sorry, but a kind person would not want their partner to lose any part of themselves. A truly kind person wants their partner to be fully themselves, with their own interests and friends outside of the marriage. A kind person is supportive of other people. He might not have been abusive, but he still wasn’t exactly kind.

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